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*helychel
writes:I'm 19 and in my first relationship. Im starting to really love my boyfriend, but I know Im not 'in love' with him yet. When do you say 'I love you', when your in love or when you start to love someone? I feel like I really want to say it now...but should I just wait for him to say it first? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): You should say it when you actually fall in love with him. By the way what do you mean by when you say you love him but not in love with him? As for waiting for him to say it first he might not say it until you have said so wait until you have fallen in love with him before saying those three words 'i love you'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2007): You will know when you are in love you just cannot mistake that feeling that you get. The warmth travels right through your body and down to your toes. It is magical and you can never question just when you are in love. You will know!
Take care
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 March 2007):
 There is no hard and fast rule when to tell your partner for the first time that you love them. If the relationship is going well and he makes you feel good then tell him! Who knows... he might just say it right back to you.
Eve
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reader, home_land  +, writes (29 March 2007):
 helloTo me love is the image of a rose in a rain drop, love is the way between the truth and the spirit.Love is the snow falling in the desert making life out of nothing. Love is the sound of your heart beat or the lightining of your struggle. It can be nice like the north wind and it can be tuff it can be mudel,love is the smile of your mother, love is the care of your brother love is great like your father, and when you feel that your bf gets all of that you can tell him i love you any time:good luck
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reader, thor +, writes (29 March 2007):
 how long have you been seeing him. if it feels right just come out with it. he might be thinking the same thing. i met my ex and it was only a few weeks that i told her i love her. it was on the end of my tongue, i just had to say it. she said it back to me. least then you know they love you back and not wanting you for sex. just tell him see what happens
take care
thor
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