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writes:Hello everyone,I would like to know your opinions about something. I can accept an honest answer, but I really need answers.I would like to know when it's absolutely certain that you have NO chance with someone, ever- in other words, when do you know for SURE that you've lost him or her for good?When he or she has a relationship? When he or she is in love with someone else?I wouldn't say I'm in love with anyone now, but I have been in the past. Every single time, my feelings have been unrequited. I realize that not EVERYONE you love is going to return your feelings, but I have never known what it's like to have feelings that were returned and sometimes I wonder if I'll EVER find someone. Thank you if you can help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2011): Hi Moonknight,
I'm the original poster... I just wanted to you to know that I read your response, and it really is helpful, not only because it opened up my eyes but because I'm really grateful that you listened and wrote a message for me. Thanks for the kind words! :-)
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reader, Moonknight  +, writes (22 February 2011):
 Unless the person is dead, there is nothing for sure that can say you've lost someone, things can change over time, and if you put enough time and effort into someone you could get them back.
During the period of this journey of trying to get that person back you will question if it's worth it or not, then you will get to the point where you've lost track of what you actually set out to do.
Saying that though, if someone had made a choice to move on and stick to it, you have no chance to that, some people know when they need to make a choice to better them self and they stick to it.
Don't worry so much about what you've lost, try to move on and think about what you will/can gain, that'll out do what you've had in the past. There is someone out there for everyone and you will find that person, we all do.
Just pray that when you find that person, it isn't you who cannot return the love, because then you will be that person, the exact person you are describing now, and that can all happen over a period of time.
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