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writes:last year I met someone and I liked him and I thought I loved him but now I know many things he knew about me and kept away from me, he was always talking to people behind my back about some stuff of my past and it was very hard for me to know all this very late.. he doesn't have any regrets about it and keeps telling lame excuses. I don't know what to do to break up with him the right way because I really want him to know that I am not that easy to play with, how should I break up with him ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Captain Teddy Bear  +, writes (5 September 2012):
 Whatever you do, be honest with him in your explanation should you choose to provide one. He has obviously hurt you by being deceitful and regardless of how much you may want revenge, it will only drop you to his level of immaturity. Take the high road and tell him the truth, and once you leave him, don't look back. Sure alot of guys are jerks, but there are some good ones out there. Also, remember the pain this has caused you so you don't pull this crap in future relationships.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (4 September 2012):
 Option 1: You break up like everyone else does. You explain the situation in a mature way and tell him why you are not willing to compromise. You tell him that you feel he isn't telling you the truth and that you cannot trust him.
Option 2: You tell him you are breaking up with him without explanation. You do not contact him in any way...by phone, email, Facebook, text, etc. If he contacts you, you do not return the calls, texts, etc. You just LEAVE.
It really depends on the person as to what you want to do. Some people get tired of talking and explaning and feel as if "judgement day" has arrived and they will just leave. Others feel they need to get things off their chests first. Either way, he must not be worth too much of your thought and energy, so I wouldn't spend much time trying to decide.
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