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writes: What's the difference between seeing someone and dating? And what's the difference between seeing someone and being a girlfriend to them? I guess im "seeing" this guy. Im 22 hes 32. Neither one of us want commint or a serious relationship. We been seeing each for 6 months. We kiss make out cuddle and stuff not sex yet but it will eventually happen soon cuz things have been getting heavy and hot. Neither one of us would bother one another if one of us had someone on the side. Everyone knows we are seeing one and other. I wana be able to call him my bf without all the pressures but i dont want him thinkin i want to get serious cuz i dont. I just want to say i have a bf. I wana talk to him about this and to let him know im not tryin to get serious i just wana say hes my bf. I dont know what to do i dont want to make him feel uncomfortable either cuz he has a busy work schedule and i dont want him thinkin he has to be the aveage bf cuz thats not what i want. What him and i are doing is what we both want. Any advice? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): I am reading in between the lines here but I don't think you are being honest with yourself. I think you do wish he was your boyfriend, but you know it's just about sex. You say you don't want more than that but ... you want to "call him your boyfriend"?
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (8 March 2008):
 Well, if he is the only man you are getting physical with and you are also friends, then he's your boyfriend.
You are seeing him and you can refere to him as your boyfriend.
I think dating is a bit more like going out with someone to get to know them better, in view of building a future together.
Make sense?
I would suggest you talk to him about where you're standing, though, to make sure you both have the same view of what you've got.
God bless and good luck!
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