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writes:So tomorrow I'm going to try to talk to the girl of my dreams... the only problem is I don't know what to say.Also she kinda dosn't like me because I put alot of pressure on her eariler in the year and she really didn't like that. However I havn't talked to her in a while and I think that maybe her opinons have changed (but for all purposes lets say she still hates me)So yeah, I'm afraid if I don't talk to her tomorrow I'll lose her forever because she might like someone else.Umm... what's a good way to talk to her and what should I say to her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): I asked her out and when she didn't anwser I kept pestering her about it. Eventually she got fed up and said because of that she'll never date me. :(
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reader, Jack White  +, writes (19 June 2008):
Be very casual about it. That way she doesn't feel that you are putting pressure on her again. Just tell her you are sorry for how you treated her, and that if she wants to hang out sometime you would be up for it. You aren't going to convince her to date you in one conversation. Start out by getting on her good side and stay there for a while, then start moving things along.
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reader, :):):) +, writes (18 June 2008):
Well you havent said what type of pressure so its difficult to say.
Firstly let her know you are sorry for whatever it is you did or said. Then tell her how you feel about her and ask if theres any chance you could go out sometime.
Good luck
xxx
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