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writes:I'm in my third year of college and I've started to develop feelings for a classmate of mine. I've known him since I started. By pure coincidence we ended up working together on group assignments every time. We get along really well. He makes me smile like no other and we share a lot of interests so we always have something to talk about. He always brings me coffee in the morning when class starts, asks me to buy lunch with him (at the school cafeteria ofcourse) that sort of thing. So the butterflies have started buzzing though for all his kindness it's hard to tell if he feels the same because he's just that kind of person--he gets along amazingly well with everyone. Sometimes we go out together with a bunch of classmates but lately I've been entertaining the idea of asking him out without them. The reason I haven't yet is because I don't want any awkwardness between us if it doesn't work out, nor do I want us to be the talk of the class if it does. But next semester (september) we will both be in an internship, both different ones. That means that I have until summer to ask him because I won't see him afterwards. What would be the right way/time to do this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2011): De Niro in the film "Heat" said it best... "Life is short. Whatever time you get is luck." Dont waste any time, ask him out today doll.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (13 April 2011):
 Go out with the classmates and ask him if he'd like to take a walk. That'll be enough alone time to ask for a date.
Or he may ask you first.
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