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anonymous
writes:So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 and a half months things are going good! We fought a bit about 2 weeks ago but were good now, we were talking about love and she ended up saying to me u love me don't u , I denied it for a while but later in the night I ended up telling her I loved her , she said her heart dropped and she immediately said I love you too. My concerns are is she just went back to college an hour away and we both have a busy schedule so it's hard to talk alot during the day but we still talk through the day, I'm considered a nice guy. I don't want to be too nice and give her too much of myself so she gets basically sick of me, what can I say or do to seem cool and like. Also she's not all kissy huggy clingy like she was in the beginning but I think that's normal, I just really want to know what to do to make our relationship great, I'm the nicest guy but I don't want to come off like that all the time what do I say or do. Basically what I'm saying is how can I make myself more of a challenge and not have the urge to be so nice all the time because I know that will eventually make things bad
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reader, AbigailBradbury  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Why do guys think like this?!
Us guys love a nice guy.
If this girl doesn't want you to be nice, then she should go and get screwed over by a horrible guy and see where she ends up.
Don't make yourself a challenge, be yourself! A relationship should be based on truth. That includes you being,..YOU!
Don't change because you think she'll get bored. If she gets bored it's not you it's her
I'm sure it'll be okay :) xx
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