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writes:My boyfriend does not tell me that he loves me, apparently because he believes love is a strong word and only exists for married couples. He tells me he likes me very much but I don't feel comfortable with it. We have been going out for a month now but I sometimes feel I'm just wasting my time. Do you think I should continue with this relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, julianna  +, writes (13 November 2008):
I know how your feelin ur the type that loves fast or should i say get attached quickly i was like that, u want him to feel the way u feel but u need to give him time because no one can honestly love someone that soon he can love ur appearance and trust me u dont want a guy that loves u because of ur looks u want him to love u for u, so settle for i like u for now and let him take his time to love u it would be worth it!
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reader, boo22  +, writes (12 November 2008):
 you cant really mean i love you after a month cos you dont know the person well enough. when guys say they love you after a few weeks they mean they really really likes you. he cant possibly love anyone after 4 weeks. my boyfriend told me he loves me after a few weeks and now a few months down the line he realises what he said was not for the best cos you cant live up to it. chill honey, all in good time x
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (12 November 2008):
 Don't push him into telling him he loves you. if your having a great time with him your not wasting your time just some people find it hard to open up he might fear because you and him are not legally commited then if he tells you and lets his guard down then he'l feel bad about it ask him about previous relationships and if he's ever been hurt might explain why hes reluctant to say it
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