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What should I do about the mutual attraction between my friend and I?

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Question - (18 February 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2013)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ittlemisshelpful writes:

just a quick one..

I'm sexually attracted to my best friend who is ofcourse, a guy.

When we're together, he often gets hard when we hug and such.

Theres a mutual attraction between us that won't budge.

What do I do?

thanks

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A female reader, Clouds United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2013):

Hi there,

As IAmHereToHelpYou stated, an erection is not always a sign of attraction! How do you feel about this guy? You should seriously consider if there’s something more than just physical attraction because expressing feelings like this to your best friend may not get the reaction you desire. If you feel that you are developing strong feeling for him and are really beginning to see him as more than a friend I would suggest honesty. You already have a close relationship so you could try and explain how you feel in a delicate manner, to avoid freaking him out. You care about each other. There is no reason why you shouldn't continue to be best friends whatever his response, just handle the situation maturely.

I'm sure everything will work out for the best

Clouds.

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