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writes:I've just recently met a girl just over a week ago now!We have been spending a lot of time together over the last week and its been great! and now im falling for her big time but last night she tells me she's not ready for a relation ship! I was going to go up and see her tonight at her place of work as i usualy do but she said i wouldnt bother to me! So, what am i supposed to do now that ive got all these feelings for her and how do i tell her and and show her?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Wooaah there sonny! You are getting to serious to soon for her. Back off and give her a chance to find out how she feels about you... She could have been hurt in a previous relationship and is just cautious now about getting into another one... A week is a bit soon to say you are falling for some one, even if you have been spending quite a bit of time together...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 You are coming on too fast for her likings. You need to pull up your breaks.If you want her, you need to move at her pace and not yours.
Write all your feelings and emotions into a journal. That would help you get out those feelings from inside of you and not cause you to bottled up and then explode.
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reader, rebgab  +, writes (19 February 2008):
You've only known her for about a week. Slow it down! You may be crazy about her.... but you'll drive her away if you rush. Love takes time and should be a slow process. I agree with the above advice. Give her space
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): I think this is her trying to tell you to back off a little bit honey. Maybe your feelings are all a bit sudden for her, you've only known her a week after all. If you have her number, text her once a day for the next few days, but don't visit her. Then in about 5 or 6 days, go and see her. See how she's getting on, listen to her, and spend some time. Don't come on too heavy, let her take everything at her pace, because she's obviously a little cautious about starting a relationship so soon. A bit of space goes a long way :] good luck honey.
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