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writes:What can be reasons for a change in a guys behaviour....for example day to day/week to week change.Like one minute they will talk to you as if everything is fine and the next he will sit there talk to everyone else about anything but for some reason wont make a conversation with you?Im not saying its nasty as he will answer me but after that, nothing. No effort to continue a conversation or anything.I can't think of anything i could have done or said so i dont think ive upset him. I would ask him outright but i dont want to jump to conclusions. Sometimes its as if hes not bothered im there and hes happy because the others are there.Can't think of anything i've done, known him quite a long time now so dont see why this would happen. Hes always been like this, is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fefi  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 well, if he's known you for a long time, then maybe he likes you -.- it may be akward for him to speak to you; thats my first suggestion...
if not, then maybe hes just having a bad time, maybe a personal problem, and so is just tryin not to engage too much, and accidently not been talkin to much to you.
if its not that, then maybe he has a grudge on you for something you may or may have not done. maybe you done something that offended him but you didnt know it, or a rumour is going around :S
the best thing to do is be positive and, like you said, not jump into conclusions... talk to your friends more, the most likely thing to happen is that he slowly starts communicating with everyone.
if this mood swing is still hapenning, then you should take him aside and talk to him face to face, maybe he'll open up...
tell me how it goes ;)
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