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writes:hey i would like some advice! i saw this girl on myspace and she had the same hobbies i had so i decided to send her a friend request! so we emailed back and forth for a couple of days and it seemed good. after a few emails i sent her one asking if "she would maybe want to meet up one nite and go out or just hang out and then i asked her if she didnt mind giving me her number" she sent one back sayin "yea, we could meet up one nite and she gave me her number" so i sent one and in it i asked "so why is a beautiful and good girl like u doing single?" she said, that she just has bad luck and she cant find someone that enjoys the same things as she does, she also said that all she ever finds is assholes. she also told me that she is very picky! so i then asked her "just wondering does my physical appearance and the little u know about me meet up to your standards??" and she wrote back and at the end of her message, she wrote "yes youve met my standards". so i asked "does that mean that u might let me take u out one nite for dinner and movie" and she wrote back saying "yes u could take me out one nite, just let me know bc any nite is good for me" well last nite i called her, but she just walked in so she said that she will call me back, but never did. so lata i just texted saying good nite and if she was tired and didnt feel like talking, i could just call her tom. and she texted back saying "im layin on the couch not feelin real good and she told me that she would call me when she got off work today", but never did! So my question is should i call or text her tonight or wait until maybe tom.? do you think that she is not interested or what? any advice would help?? thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): She sounds evasive. Send her a message on myspace saying you hope to hear from her. If you don't within a week, give up on her. There are plenty of other people out there.
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reader, fuglyone +, writes (21 April 2009):
 You're upwards of 26 years old??? Seriously? Dude. Relax. Like my daddy used ta say, "when you feel like gettin laid, just toss a quarter in the trunk of the car and wack the winky" I was a rich man within a year and never had to work again. Also, what the hell is this "lata" crap? Write like you speak some English. Yeah, and I think that she might be interested, but isn't worth it because at the least she's a tease. Do you need that in your life? Or are you seriously that desperate to be with a woman? If so, then try going out to places where women are. The library, bookstore, Denny's at 3AM, a bar, a cafe, another city/state/country.
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reader, 2blueyez +, writes (21 April 2009):
As a female and an avid myspace user, I think you should let it go. Either something has made her not interested now, or it is a sign of what kind of person she is and that is one that never follows up on things and is never on time, or makes excuses to get out of things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I wouldnt be all that concerned that she didnt call. As I said, it is completely possible that she just didnt feel well. Its also possible that she is feeling what you are and is afraid to seem overeager! Try texting her like I said with the 2 choices of nights to go out and see what she answers with. And let me know how it works out! Lol, I am curious...J
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reader, greeneyes +, writes (21 April 2009):
give her some time. she may just not be feeling well. That and meeting "strangers" online can be a little scary
give her a few days. email her or call her again. if she avoids you she's probably changed her mind.
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reader, jon23 +, writes (21 April 2009):
jon23 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionjezebel527, thanks for the advice! well yea, thats what she said; she said the weird thing is that she is picky, but when she thinks a guy is a good guy, he ends up proving her wrong! and she does text back when i text. its just i didnt know how to take that she said she would call but didnt!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Well for starters she cant be too picky if all she dates is assholes! She may truly be not feeling well. I would text her with a like two chioces of nights you could go out and say its up to her. Leave it at that. If she doesnt respond then you know...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): i would wait for her to get up with you. sounds like she is giving you the yes yes yes and then when the time comes she says call ya later. she may not be interested. or maybe you are rushing it. i would wait for her.
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