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writes:I am in love with a girl which happen to be sitting close to me while we were writting our s.s.c.e exams in 2010,but I didn't tell her then not until august last year,that's 2 year after we left the secondary school.when I first called her on the phone telling her how much I love her,she told me that I am late that she has someone already.she even told me she have had this emotional feeling for me since when we were sitting close in school,saying if not for that love she would have hung the phone on me.but days later when I called her again she finally accepted me to be her boyfriend.but what baffles me is that whenever she comes to my house and I try to have a carnal knowledge of her she refuses and keep promising me that she's gonna give it to me some day.another thing is that she doesn't even bother calling me.because of the kind of job I do I usually travel and spend up to 2,3 weeks away from my town.what I noticed is that whenever I call her that I am leaving town she feels sorry for me and I hear that pityful voice from her.despite her not letting me have sex with her,I still love her like hell.please help me out because I don't know the kind of game she is playing with my heart right now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks peeps for the answer.I swear I love her to very last breathe of my heart & I don't wanna play no games with her.though I'm 23 & she's 21 I invited her to come see my parents just to make her feel secured but she refused to show up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2013): Have you ever considered that maybe she would like an emotional connection with you before you try to jump into her pants?Some women don't appreciate getting treated like a piece of meat, which honestly, that's what it sounds like. Just because she has feelings for you, and you for her doesn't give you license to sex her.Build a relationship and continue to care for her, and when she's ready she'll give it to you. If that's all she's doing and it feels like a game to you, maybe you're the one trying to play her. And as to why she doesn't call you, ask her. Let her know that you do want her to call you.
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