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male
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51-59,
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writes:Hi. There is this babe where I work who is really hot (or perhaps she just cycled into work that particular day!). She works off the next corridor. I've seen certain guys hanging around her alot. She laughs at their jokes and seems to like them. I like her too. Trouble is that I see her very infrequently and therefore to make an impression during those stolen seconds or minutes I feel obliged to say memorable stuff - stuff which evokes an emotional response. You could say I'm not really being myself. Question is, what kind of communication is most likely to attract a woman? A guy who talks to her infrequently who engages her emotions or a guy who is able to be himself and talks to her on a very regular basis? Which one would you fancy? Let's assume they are both equally good looking, still have their hair and are not too flabby. Let's also assume they have similar ranking jobs and that she is very attractive and intelligent! Thanks from me to you! Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 Make her laugh. She'll never forget you. And be comfortable in your own skin. Once a woman doesn't feel like you're trying too hard, you'll wow her. Good luck.
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reader, squiggle  +, writes (30 August 2008):
Just be yourself! And from what I've learnt I like guys to have intelligent conversations and be witty and fun! Thats what I find attractive - not someone you know is just out to get into your underwear!!! Plus I find it always works best to not be too quick off the mark - you might get to know her and not want her as a partner and have a really good friend - if you scare her away by being too flirty first off you might have lost out on getting to know this really intelligent and attractive woamn. So be yourself and get to know her - if things progress then great! Eithe way you could have a friend or something more.
Hope this helps.
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