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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a bit confused... I think my ex just insulted and complimented me at the same time... He said the reason my relationships never work is because I have to much sex appeal. What is sex appeal exactly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol thanx. I really havent ever had any problems getting guys my trouble was always keeping them when I wouldnt sleep with them. I am 21, and my ex was my best friend up until we broke up. We knew each other practically since we were in the womb, which is why I listened to what he said about my relationships. But really thank you. You really cleared up my confusion and made me feel extremely better!
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reader, Debking79  +, writes (11 September 2009):
 Dear Anonymous,
I had to smile when I read your question - you are absolutely right! He did compliment you and insult you in one full swoop.
But he is dead dead wrong.
Sex appeal generally means that the person is extremely physically attractive and exudes that something that makes the opposite sex want to get that sexy person in bed right then and there at first sight. You are a very beautiful woman :)
I would have to make an educated guess that your ex has very low self esteem/ low confidence issues and is a very jealous man. He was uncomfortable by being with such a gorgeous woman. Instead of feeling proud to be with you when he saw other men checking you out, he felt threatened. He has trust issues. It has nothing to do with you!! It was his problem and it is probably good he is an ex.
And how dare he judge you and make a statement about your relationships!? You are 18-21 years old.
Long story short - Your ex has a low self-esteem and didn't deserve you. Be happy you are beautiful and single. Have loads of fun.
I wish you the best of luck =)
Cheers,
Deb
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