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What is he hiding from me?

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Question - (10 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2007)
A female Kenya age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My fiance,whom I had known as a good friend, a pentecostal and a colleague with no ties binding us for two years before he expressed his romantic feelings for me has now been insisting on premarital sex from the first day when he expressed his romantic feelings for me two months ago.

When I refused and told him it was too soon to have sex, he said it was OK and that his purpose for the relationship was not sex. He however looks disturbed and has started spending less time with me. He even refuses to hug and kiss me. He has lately been insisting that I take him to my home but does not want to take me to their home. Is this guy for real? what is he hiding from me at their home place? or he just wanted to exploit me sexually and now he feels embarassed and wants to pretend he is comitted by asking me to take him to my home?

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (10 December 2007):

Ya he sounds like a guy with a master plan and it's good you didn't give in too easily.From a personal point of view,the guy has no serious religous standing and is a hypocrite.Honesty is always important with oneself and others.This guy had been thinking of sex from the day he 1st saw you and couldn't resist the urge to demand it from you.I also have a religous inclination but will admit to thinking about sex but will not demand sex from the 1st day.If you know what's good for you stay away from him and if he realises his mistake he'll be back.The fact that he has not come clean on the issue of goin to his place sure raises doubt but don't be quick to judge until you know the truth.He may have a genuine reason for not taking you to his place.

Good luck.

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