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What is considered cheating?

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Question - (21 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 October 2010)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *bosse writes:

Hi everyone

what is it that is considered cheating.what did the person do to be called a 'cheter' ...thank you!

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A male reader, defeated Canada +, writes (21 October 2010):

cheating is and there is many ways of cheating, one is sex with someone other then bf/gf, another is having sexual talks/text messages/e mails with someone other than bf/gf

really if is something of that nature that u want to keep hidden/secret from ur partner its cheating

reverse the roles, if something u did or are doing would upset ur partner wouldn't the same apply to him/her

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (21 October 2010):

person12345 agony auntThere is no single definition of cheating, other than the dictionary definition. A relationship is just an agreement between two (or sometimes more) people on what they want the other doing. Basically it's agreed control. Anything outside the agreement is cheating. If you both agree that you shouldn't eat pickles, and one of you eats pickles, it's cheating.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010):

In my opinion any kind of sexual contact. Lip to lip, groping and of coarse oral n sex. Prolongd contact i thnk is too. If im with a guy and i walk in on him cuddling with anthr girl. Hes goin to miss me. Some ppl feel that theres a such thng as mentaly unfaithful bt i thnk that was a thng made to describe a feeling girls go threw whn there guy comes off to b a potinal cheater.

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (21 October 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntWell there is always the blatantly obvious occurances where one spouse has sex with another person (with the exception of swingers and other types of open relationships). There are emotional affairs, a married man or woman may fall in love with someone else and not be honest to their spouses. If no actual intercourse occurs, blowjobs, handjobs and kissing is still cheating if not done with a spouse. It does not matter if it is physical or if it is done over the internet. What matters is that emotionally or physically, the person in question is not being loyal to his/her spouse.

I hope that helps.

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