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What is a female orgasm?

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Question - (28 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A male Pakistan age 51-59, *mkhizar writes:

what is female orgasm? How a male can feel that female has enjoyed with intercourse?

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A male reader, HarryMete New Zealand +, writes (23 June 2009):

Involuntary anal contractions is irrefutable proof that a woman has had an orgasm. You can feel these contractions by placing a finger on her anus. But, orgasm is in the brain. It is merely perceived in the clitoris or vagina. That's why hypnotists can give people orgasms on stage.

Harry

http://www.1stop4femaleorgasms.com/blog

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

I understood (english is my 2nd language) you asked how to recognize a female orgasm with intercourse.

But you asked also what is female orgasm in general and your age is about 50?

A bit late that you start to ask yourself this question, honestly, but let's approach as following: better late then never.

I think that you have to start concentrating on the clitorial orgasm, otherwise you would not have asked this question at your age.(I guess you're not a virgin)

You have internet, so read all about stimulation the clitoris with your tongue, bring it into practise and very soon you will see the result.

To give you some ideas and it will bre so easy to make here happy:

1)Take care she is clean (and you)

2)Find here clitoris (look on the internet)

3)move your tongue slowly,quickly, follow the alphabet (makes your tongue changes the moves).

4)And ask her what she likes, bit more up,down, left right.

There is much more to discover, but you should start from the beginning.

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

There is no generic answer for your question, but in general her PC muscles are tightening up and you feel it like hugging till even very strong hugging your penis and her pussy feels more tight.

There are women who come but you do not feel so strong (I think because here pc muscles are not so strong).

You have woman who come like a bomb explosion, and they have to regenerate some time like most of the men and their pussy is too sensitive to continue after they came (one time I was with a woman who rolled of my p after she came and I didn't come yet).

Some woman can come in a few minutes, especially the ones who can generate multiple orgasms.

Normally, when she is coming, you cannot control yourself anymore, unless that you know that she has multiple orgasms and there is more in for both.

Women with multiple orgams, often come every time more strong.

An other thing, what is also a difference with men, she cannot think anymore, not only at the moment supreme but also not anymore when she is close to come.

I give you an example, I was with a woman, her children were downstairs watching tv (I had to sleep in the guestroom because she wanted to show here children I was just a friend). In the morning she wanted me in her bedroom, and the bed was piep piep piep and I had to control because I didn't want to 'suprise' her children.

Close to she was coming lets say 30 seconds before, she forgot everything and move really wild... and we both came, but she had something to explain to her 10 year old son when he run up...

So there is no generic answer and my experiences are only how I experienced.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2009):

How can a man know that a woman has enjoyed intercourse? Well, I'll say it from my experience...

There have been two distinct types of orgasms I've experienced with women.

1) The first one being the 'dead fish' orgasm. This is where the girl likes to be penetrated in the missionary position and only gets off in the missionary position. After penetrating her for 20 minutes to an hour (omgosh, it was tiring), her grasp on me was tighter. Her panting became more shortened but slightly louder and when she finally orgasmed, her PC muscles would tighten up, hugging my penis quite nicely. Too bad it only lasts for a few seconds.

2) The second one being wildly delicious. This is when she can be penetrated in many different positions or one particular one and have one big orgasm or a few continuous orgasms in a row.

In her words, as I remember her telling it to her friends, "It feels like static is going through your entire body. My muscles would tighten up all over and release itself. It feels like a bomb goes off inside of me or lightning struck through me." Something like that.

The second way is very apparent. The first way is more subtle.

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