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writes: We have 5 semesters left at college. Mabye i seem unqualified to say that we are perfect for each other considering my extreme bias, but you are just going to have to trust me. Her problem has always been she was unable to commit to anything because she is uncertain about the future. How do i convince her that i am worth her time and what we had was amazing and that no matter what happens after college nothing would stop me from being there for her? I know that sounds like a really stupid question to convince someone to love you, but i feel like she already does and doesn't know how to react to it. I know this is ambiguous and probably deserves a lot of prefacing but i feel like i need an ambiguous answer at this point. I've already "Told her how i feel." What else can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2009): sorry i forgot to say that we are not togeather and she broke up with me because of her uncertain future
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (3 November 2009):
 Exactly what you ARE doing.If she's developing feelings for you based on how things are, why change anything? Stepping up the pace would only add pressure. Pulling back (at this point) might lead her to believe you're not as interested anymore.People can commit quite easily to things they love to do, that they can enjoy without feeling cornered. Making a committment to someone does not always require a big talk. It can work just as nicely if people ease into it, as they would a habit.It sounds as though you're doing all the right things, so relax and relish each day as it comes.
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