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Is it ok to love with the mind, not the heart?

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Question - (3 November 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2009)
A male Canada age 18-21, anonymous writes:

hey everyone, is it healthy or ok to love someone with your mind than your heart? what i mean is to love him/her based on there decisions, beliefs and how they treat you

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A male reader, thenotsogreat New Zealand + , writes (3 November 2009):

thenotsogreat agony auntlove is love.

Let it grow and your heart will join the party.

enjoy it

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A male reader, RosesAreRed86 United States +, writes (3 November 2009):

This is a silly question that is all about semantics. People already struggle hard enough to define what love is, without having to bring the heart/mind into the equation. Really, there is no difference. If you love someone, you love them.

Please put a little more thought into your questions. This really is a pretty lame and meaningless question.

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A female reader, Ginalolabridga United Kingdom + , writes (3 November 2009):

Ginalolabridga agony auntWhilst all the things you say are very important to anyone in a relationship, it is always best to love with the heart that way you will know if your truly in love.

Many people are very mind like in their thinking, beliefs, decisions etc: but when it comes to loving well that is totally different.

Your heart lets you know when your in love, whilst your mind might question certain things, most people will make a lot of decisions based on the heart felt feelings for a person, we are all different and many people will have their own different views on this.

You decide what works for you, cause that might not work for someone else.

Gina

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