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writes:Ex sent me a “blank” email that has nothing in it on the day before Valentine’s Day, what does it mean? Is he trying to tell me something ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Probably was thinking of sending you an email, but decided not to, and accidentally sent you one. I agree with others -- send an email saying you got a blank email, asking him if he had meant to send you something -- but only if you are trying to reconnect. Otherrwise, leave it alone. Fact that you're thining about indicates to me you ythat you are considering seeing him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all your responses. The email was sent this morning. I responded to him with couple “??”, but haven’t heard back from him. Couple weeks ago, we did talk for around half hour for the first time after our breakup 4 months ago. I was the one that broke the “no contact”. The conversation went well, nothing about getting back. Last weekend, I sent him a quick text just to say ‘hello’, but he didn’t respond, I called him, he didn’t respond either, so I just left a brief message in his voice mail to call me if he want to. Later on, he sent me an email and told me that his phone not working and will call me sometime. But he never call. So I just left it as is, these past two days, I wasn’t thinking about him until this miserious email from him. Now I’m scratching my head... I guess I’m a curious person wanting to find out the reason. I’m trying to analyse it over and over, why he did that. I may never know the reason unless I ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): send him a message back asking why did you send me a blank message. and leave it at that. If he really wanted to get in touch with you he probably would have said something in the message. So he probably does not to say anything more likely than not it was a mistake.
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reader, shiraz *  +, writes (13 February 2009):
hiyah firstly be careful not to read too much into things, don't get your hopes up. Although I get where your going it is strange, maybe he's hoping you'd question it and so reply to him in order to get a converstaion going? Depedning on how and why it ended can help what you decide to do next.Do you want to get back in touch? Do you see a future with him? Whatever his motives there is always a reason for a split and somtimes tht never goes away. best of luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): It could be a variety of things. Maybe it was sent by mistake? I would, maybe just for fun, check if the the colour of the text has been made white (or the background colour)so you can't see the message. Maybe he was thinking of you and didn't know what to do so he just send an empty mail to get a conversation flowing.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (13 February 2009):
What time did he send it? Was it after pub closing time?
There's a pretty high likely hood that he decided to send you a drunk email trying to get into your pants or tell you that he still loves you, then chickened out, went to click on cancel and clicked send instead.
Reply with a single question mark.
If it meant anything then he'll remember and reply, if it was a drunken moment / plea for sex then he won't.
Either that or don't reply and just ignore the whole thing. If you are happier with out him then why encourage him to get back in touch?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2009): You know it could just be something he sent you to get you thinking about him again. Maybe he wasnt sure what to say or was telling you that it was ok to contact him. I would write him back if you still have feelings for him, there's no harm in that.
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