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*monation96
writes:how does it feel to lose ur virginity?does it hurt?how does it feel when guys come?how does it feel wen a guy is hard?how does it feel wen a girl comes?how do girls come?help me please Reply to this Question
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reader, snofaul +, writes (5 October 2009):
I don't know if this will help or anything, but I recently lost my virginity two days ago. My boyfriend isn't a virgin. I'm 18 and he's 20. Umm. It didn't hurt for me. Like.. at all. I honestly don't know why. But I've heard that females can tear their 'cherry' while playing sports, using tampons, whatever. I don't think either of those is my case. But some girls don't have anything to tear anyway. Maybe I fall in that category? Lol I'm not sure. But anyways, hope that might've helped in some way.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 I can answer a few of those questions.
1) For a girl, it hurts to lose your virginity. It can be VERY painful. You will bleed a little afterwards. This is part of the reason we advise young women to wait until they are in a stable and loving mature relationship.
2) When a man ejaculates inside you, you can sometimes feel a pulsing, but not always. It's subtle. You may not know he has orgasmed by the physical sensations. It is easier to tell by reading his body language. This is possible because you are presumably being intimate with someone with whom you share a deep emotional intimacy.
3) When a woman orgasms.... it feels wonderful. The BEST way to find that out is to explore your own body now. If you do, you will be better able to acheive orgasm when you are with a man.
While you explore, you won't hurt yourself and you won't end your virginity. You also won't have full orgasms right away. Be open to the sensations, be adventurous (but not irresponsible) play out fantasies in your mind, and not only will you get there, but it will be WELL worth the effort.
The better you know your body BEFORE being with a man, the more wonderful your sexual experiences will be and the more likely you are to enhance emotional intimacy with your man because you will be able to help him explore your body as he will guide you in exploring his.
It's normal to have questions about sexuality at your age, so feel free to keep asking. I want to add that you should be proud that you are still a virgin.
Very smart! ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2009): It's different for everyone--a lot of these questions that you're asking cannot be explained. When you're ready (and use protection of course) you'll figure it out for yourself. It's like asking how it feels to kiss someone, you can't explain what it feels like. Most of us have gone through this without much of an explanation, you don't need help.
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