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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:What does a women do if her BIOLOGICAL needs clash with her psychological UNMET NEEDS.The problem is that I stayed in a long-term controlled relationship for 8 years and made many attempts to leave but I was way to brainwashed and it was only thanks to the birth of my daughter that I found the strength to walk away. I'm now 28, and it was over 4 and a half years ago when I left, which means that I have the psychological UNMET NEEDS to recapture my lost youth, expereince freedom and I fear commitment.However, being 28, the best part of my youth is coming to an end! My feminine body is very clever and it's trying to push me to re-create more babies- this isn't a conscious decision, it comes down to millions of years of evolution. What do I do to overcome this inner psychological battle? Reply to this Question
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (26 August 2014):
 You live your life to the fullest and stop trying to control the outcome of everything. I have friends and relatives who are single moms. They take their kids on vacations with them all over the world. They date. They party. They study part-time. They try to advance in their career. They save money to purchase their own homes. They create goals for themselves and then try to achieve them. You need to figure out what you want. Make a wish list and then start the process of achieving it. If you stay in an analytical mode, you won't achieve anything. You have to start doing what you need to do to get what you want. Do you want a relationship? Do you want more kids? Do you want more money? Do you want a better job? You can do it all if you want. The only thing that's stopping you is YOU.
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