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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): I would just stick to just 'love', he has to say it first. Make him do all the hard work :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): well.. im a guy.. and im in the same situation as you ladies.. there is a girl i like and she is going out with me for valentines dinner.. she says she likes me too.. so i got her this card and a little monkey with hearts on it.. and plan to get her a rose too.. does that sound like too much?? and i still dont know what to put in the card.. the card is simple and says "I may not know all the words but i know what i like.. YOU!!" im soo nervous.. iv NEVER had a date for V-day..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): i came on here for the same reason quiet a gd lil cheat website if i may say so lol! but i did the dirty an read nearly every valentine card in clintons for all the messages inside but they were either really cheesy disgustingly lovey dovey or a tad inappropriate for the parents that will no doubt read on the sly lol! so i took the good messages and put them in a simple card! so just have a quick look in a few cards, its not as if the boyfriend will ever no they wont be looking at cards for themselves!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): To avoid this problem myself i bought i reasonably plain yet cute card. On the front it reads "On our first Valentne's Day" and on the inside it says "with love always".Yet im having the same problem when it comes to actually writing it! :o(Should i just put "Love Jo"?Or put something soppy at the bottom??I am also reasonably worried that as i played it safe with this type of card, my boyfriend will get me a madly loved up one or something! Ha ha! Oh dear!So sorry, i cant really help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): I'm 16 too, and been with my boyfriend for 5 months. and he means alot to me and i know he feels the same. Love is a strong feeling and alot different to 'fancy'. it took me alot longer than a month to love him. i'm not saying you don't love him but maybe just take it easy, and write something along the lines of.. we haven't been together long but you make me so happy when i'm around you. just keep it simple.. guys like to take things a little less to heart than us girls.. but just write what you feel.. and if he doesnt do the same.. its not the end of the world.. it just means he's stuck what to right and chances are hes worrying about the same thing you are.. good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): I'm sure your boyfriend wouldn't appreciate it if his card was full of words which you've taken off of an internet site! Write what YOUR feeling, I'm sure that would mean alot more to him. Don't worry if it's "corny" he's probably feeling the exact same thing!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): hey, i am in the same situation as you are and i've been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months and i still don't know what to write in the damn card! I'm just stuck for ideas, you could write something like "the time we spent together could never have been better and i want you to know you are everything to me, you're my stars in the night sky and my sunshine on a cloudy day, i love you" You may want to choose something other than "I love you" if you've only been going out for a month.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): No one know what to really put in a card, so u just put in what u thing he will like best and what u think he will like. Boys like u for who u r not what u put in a valentine card
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): well... really to tell you the truth I got on here for the same reason. I don't know what to write either. I'm afraid that if I write something that I feel he will think that it is totally korny. But you know if he really likes you then he will feel the same way that you do. So I would suggest that you would write something like... Ever since we have been together I feel as if you make my life so much more fun. Every time I come near you my heart skips a beat. You are my sunshine on a cloudy,rainy day. When we are together my life feels so complete. Then just add a little bit of your own words to it. Then at the end just write Happy Valentine's Day and I love you more than words would ever be able to tell.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): HiI Know how ur feelin write this:Dear Valentine, I send my heart,affection, dear and true,because this heart that is my ownbelongs to only you.I cannot tell in words alonejust all you mean to me,and yet I send my fondest thoughtsthat surely you shall see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): You're asking exactly the same question as i wanna know!! i came on here to look and found u were asking it too. I have the same problem - i dont know what to write but i've been with my boyfriend for nearly six months, hmmmm.... maybe i'll just have to think of something!! Say exactly what u feel and wanna say xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): Hey I think you should just get like a funny card not a love card because yall have not been dating that long so those kinds of cards are for when yall have been together longer write something in there like Im glad we are together this last mouth has been great im looking forward to spending more time with you your awesome then put love always then put your name
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): I Love You More Today
Than Yesterday
But less than tommorow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): write whatever that your heart tells you even if it sounds silly. the words that you write are more meaningful coming from you rather than other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): i love woman to woman advice.. ''just write wat ever men dont notice' are we all insensative pigs to you girls?
write what comes from your heart, after a month im guessin its not true love yet so ''im happy we're together'' would be a good start
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reader, cd206  + ♥, writes (5 February 2007):
 The majority of guys don't take Valentines Day as seriously as us. Whereas we have to pick the perfect card and write the perfect words inside, as you've seen most guys are happy just to write the minumum and sign their name. This doesn't mean they don't like you as much as you like them. They just haven't overanalysed it as much. That's why I'm going to say write whatever you want (although maybe not I love you because its only been a month) but don't be disappointed if you just get the same message as last year. It's not a reflection on you, just a reflection on men in general!
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): you should probably just put happy valentine's your the best boyfriend in my life love whatever your name is love ya see ya later love christmas good luck
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