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What do I do when my girl says she loves me, but fancies someone else?

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Question - (12 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2005)
A , *aiclerk writes:

I was in this relationship with this girl, she's said to me that she loves me but she fancies someone else. I don't know what to do because I really love her, she's done a lot to hurt me but I still love her. What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2005):

Hello, I'm in a very similar situation to you. Acutually it's the same one. My advice is to just give her some time. Wait a while and see what happens. If after two weeks or so everything is exactly the same, just leave. Try your best to get ovet her. It will be difficult, but in the long run it will be better.

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A reader, smilechipper +, writes (12 May 2005):

hi, It sounds as if your ex girlfriend doesnt know what she wants. I understand you loving her. You can't help your feelings. I think that if she truly loved you then she wouldn't fancy anyone else, she would only have eyes for you, so to speak.

You sound as if you still want her and maybe she will decide this person she fancies isn't who she wants and will want to come back to you. You need to make a line which she shouldn't cross if she does come back, since you've let her hurt you so much already, just to save yourself from the hurt. Hope this helps x

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