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writes:hello cupid. i have a small petty question. i went out with a guy and my friends. (it was not a date) there he paid for my bill leaving behind other friends ( he did not paid for them) but since he does not want i gave him back his money but he told me keep it with me later and give it to him later. but later he was not there so i gave back the money to his mum. when i told him i left his money with his mum he said that what was the need to return him. he also added that :- ''you have insult me by returning the money''. what he actually mean by that?? and can anyone tell this to any random person or he consider me a bit special?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 He was trying to do something nice for you. You giving the money back was indeed a bit of an insult. It's like telling someone you didn't like their gift rather than accepting it graciously even if you didn't like it. He wanted to do something nice for you and he had his reasons. Just take the gift in the future and don't worry about it. Offer to pay your part, if he refuses, then let it rest or pick up the tab the next time you're out together.
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reader, Trac675 +, writes (29 November 2010):
 It could be a couple different things. Either he has a "connection" for you and paid for your meal, but didnt feel obligated to pay for your friends. And or, he was brought up with manners, and paid for a lady friends meal, as it is the polite thing to do. Since he felt insulted that you repaid him, sounds like he has a crush on ya. I cant see him saying it to just a random person though. But, it depends on who invited who go out to eat. If he did u, then he better pay lol. I would have to say, I'm with him on the not paying for friends if he didnt invite them. If he did, thats a different story. If you have a open friendship, ask him why he said it. Thats your true answer. :)
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