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writes:I'm 27 years old and when I have sex I tend to cum no more then 5 seconds. I guess I'm looking for a technical way to work on it and maybe a reason why it happens?? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Well the anonymous male responder does make a good point. Too much masturbation can indeed result in training for quick ejaculation. Still, too little information provided by poster to determine the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): I disagree...masturbation actually can be part of the problem as we condition or effectively train ourselves to cum quickly when we masturbate.
There are exercises that involve allowing yourself to get to the very brink of orgasm and then pulling back until you relax a bit and then go at it again, repeat...it helps to grasp the shaft at the base to stop from cumming...this takes practice but I've heard good results from it.
You can google your question as well and get more information.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (21 January 2010):
You provide little information with which to suggest a solution, but one is to masturbate an hour or so prior to the sexual encounter with a partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): You learn how to last longer through masterbation. Start masterbating with your hand. When you feel you are about to come stop. Keep stopping everytime you feel like you are going to come. Practice changing hands. When you change it up you can last longer. Watch porn and masterbate and practice not coming until you are ready. Try out one of those pocket pussy masterbaters. I have been told that it actually feels like a real vagina. I haven't tried it myself but I am going to. Hope everything works out. One final tip. If you rub one off about before you have sex you will last longer when you are able to get hard again. Oh yeah one more. Put some orajel on the head of your penis and then wear a condom. It helps desensetize your penis a little bit but you don't want to put that in your lady's vagina so wear the condom. There are also some condoms that already have something in them to desensetize you. Have fun and good luck.
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