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writes:at school i have about 6 friends, i get along fine with all of them, but recently they're starting to get kind of annoying. its like im starting so see the bad side of them and its coming more and more obvious as time goes by. there are way to many arguments in our group and im starting to feel like the one who is keeping them all together, i also do everything for them, plan days out and sleepovers and parties, i hate planning but they wont do anything, and if i stop planing things we never do anything. they're excuse is that im the only one without siblings therefore its easier if i plan it all.im really getting tired of them, and we will be leaving the school at the end of the year becuase it is closing down, but until then what can i do to make it better???? Reply to this Question
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Since they're your friends, you have to be honest with them. Tell them you're tired of the fighting and keeping everything together and that they need to learn to control their emotions. And tell them you don't want to be the one planning things and that all they have to do is give up 5 mins to think of something. Just tell them what you're feeling, and if they're real friends, they'll listen and try to improve themselves.
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