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writes:Dear Cupid,This question is for all the single mothers out there, please encourage. I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes but I want to know how does it feel when the father denies the pregnanacy and you now have to tell your family you are expecting a father less child isn't it embarrassing to you and your whole family ? And your baby does he get to ask questions about the dad what do you tel them? I have no information about him I only know that we had sex only once and parted ways and I only know he is very cruel I dnt even know were he stays now I know nothing will that affect me in the future will it make my child resent me for not knowing much about its father. I drank soda and a lot of salt thinking it would wash away the pregnancy but it ddnt work so I think maybe I should keep the child but are the consequences I'm going to be facing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2013): all i gotta say to you is its not gonna be easy.financially and your social lifestyle will change..i personally think you dont have to tell the child anything until he/she is much much older to handle the truth. He/she wont resent you for this.fyi soda would make the pregnancy away. Only surgical/medical abortion would have.but if you are keeping the baby.Just come out to your family and they will be there by your side..as for the guy you dont have to find him or let him back in your life if it happens he re-appears.He is just plain stupid and selfish.i know its gonna be hard and its gonna suck a lot but you will make it
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reader, khot +, writes (2 May 2013):
khot is verified as being by the original poster of the question Phew yah thank you for the heads up about going to the doctor I really ddnt think it even reached the baby coz it seems as if I vomited everything but thts my 1st step indeed doctor and beggining to love my baby and praying to God for ha solution. Believe me I have learnt my lesson anout umprotected sex only once just once yoh I have learnt
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013): "I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes"
Your baby shouldn't suffer for being born to a single bio-mother who is clearly incapable of raising a child on her own.
"I drank soda and a lot of salt thinking it would wash away the pregnancy but it ddnt work so I think maybe I should keep the child"
If you are not receiving pre-natal care from a qualified health care professional then you need to need to see one immediately. You lack the capacity to make rational decisions regarding your unborn child's future and your actions have already put his/her health at serious risk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013): There are times where I feel hatred towards my daughters father but then I realize I really could be putting the energy into my daughter loving her and making her happy. I stopped caring about what people thought about me or my situation because it's exactly that MY business. Being a single mom is hard at times but rewarding none the less and I wouldn't change it for the world.
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