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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, my boyfriend is interested in trying anal. Im completely fine with it but obviously I don't have a penis so were going to buy a double sided dildo so I can still be pleasured while he trys this.But the only problem is, im worried I could hurt him. What are the associated risks with this?I don't want him to get hurt.
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reader, Firefighter's Wife 09  +, writes (11 February 2009):
I wish my husband was down for that! I heard that just putting your finger just inside his anus and pushing on his prostate can cause the most incredible orgasm that they have ever had! My hubby is so not down! lol!
Just be careful! The first time you do it, you probably shouldn't be on the othe end of the double dildo.
It will hurt like a bitch! I'm assuming he is young too and shouldn't have any problems with hemorrhoids but, if he does it can cause problems. They can rip open or just start bleeding and that, I'm sure, is not pleasent. Depending on the material,some can be porous and will hold bacteria, you might want to use a condom on the end. Make sure you use plenty of lube too! Go slow! Remember god made that hole for stuff to come out! But is curious folks always try to do things the wrong way!lol
You might also want to try anal beads. There is a loop on one end and the beads start large at the loop and get smaller as they go!
Don't try the first time with a dildo that has a large girth! Ouch!
When you are done with playing, make sure you wash up good!
Wash the toy in hot soapy water afterwards and allow to sue dry on a paper towel. Wash hands good too! There is a lot, a lot, a lot of bacteria you don't want spread to other places!
Just remember go slow communicate and have fun! You can also get a anal numbing cream to put on his hiney!
In my experience it didn't numb very well and I cried...a lot.
Good luck!
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