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writes:I have a new girl friend i really love her but i have nothing to talk about we always talk about the same things! i need topics please Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): The best means of conversing in a social event, gathering or other situation is to ask the other person about themself. Ask them about their family, hobbies, interests, favorite movie, favorite band or singer, favorite TV show, favorite childhood moment, worst childhood moment, most embarassing moment, or ask them things about their school, neighborhood, or job.
By asking the other person questions, you get them to open up and share a part of themselves which should lead to dialogue. If you try conversing with someone and only tell them about yourself, you leave them little else to contribute to the conversation.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Find out what she is interested in, this will make it easier for you to have a conversation with her. If I throw you topics it will be something that interest me and might bored her, so find out more about her. This way you will always have things to talk about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): Well it really really depends what she is like, I'd say politics but you might end up hating her if your both strongly opionated, or if neither of you care you might just get nothing!!!
Erm...
1)what's around you (that's always good for dates is convo is running low)
eg. What do you think of that meal, or the service then link that to other stuff
2)go out somewhere so you can talk about it
3)tv programmes
4)....
I don't know, what does she like??
And what do you normally talk about?!
With that info I can hopefully help a bit more
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