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writes:He and I have never had sex although it seems we're attracted to each other, but he tells other guys to stay away from me. What's going on with him?Paradise Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): If thats what you want then go for it - it will either scare him off that the games become reality or he will jump at the chance but you will have to live with any consequences. x
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reader, paradise +, writes (29 April 2008):
paradise is verified as being by the original poster of the question Okay, here's a loaded question for you. How do you think Al would respond if I left him a note that basically says "let's cut thru the crap, I don't have the right to feel this way but I would like to make wild and passionate love with you." This cat-and-mouse game is getting emotionally exhausting for me!!
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reader, paradise +, writes (27 April 2008):
paradise is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all for your advice and feedback. I welcome it all, as I don't know what's going on. I don't have the right to feel the way I do about this guy, Al, who has ignited a passion in me that I haven't felt for a long time. I really don't want to act on these feelings, and perhaps I just enjoy playing this game with him for awhile. With all of your help perhaps we can figure out together just what's going on with Al because once I know what he's really all about then I can put it to rest and work on my marriage like I should be doing anyway. I got a new hairdo today as I needed to do something different to stop obsessing with this situation. I now have a plan to stay backed-off from Al and go about my business as a school bus driver, no matter what he does or doesn't do. A few weeks ago I was interested in him and let him know, now I'm uninterested and will keep it that way. I do wonder, though, how he will react to my new hairdo, come to think of it!!
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reader, paradise +, writes (26 April 2008):
paradise is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'd like to interrupt his plans to make a move on me. What right does he think he has to let everyone think that I'm his? This infuriates me. Is that what he wants? for me to get angry at him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Tell him to watch his mouth unless he is really intending to be with you in the future, i dont see how he has the right to tell anyone that. Tell him so,.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Would need more info really. Perhaps he plans to make a move on you soon and just wants to make sure nobody gets in there first. Without any further info, this is the only reason I can think of x
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