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writes:Well...me and my boyfriend have been together about a year and a half. I just had a baby with him about three weeks ago and it seems like he's lost all affection towards me. This was my first baby but he has a baby from a previous girl so that puts a strain on our relationship too. I feel as if he's already done this game before and our baby was an accident to him because his first child was and he only stayed with the girl for the babys sake. I really just fel so alone even when he's there. We don't cuddle or hand hold or even talk anymore unless its about our daughter. Is it just me being immature because I'm so young or is there a way I can fix this?
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (2 November 2009):
 Have you spoken to him about all this and why he is behaving like this towards you?
If you don't discuss these things unfortunately they get worse because each of you are just accepting this.
If your baby was not planned and he has another baby to someone else, i can see that he may not be overjoyed at the thought of another baby, but the baby is his and as such he has to take an interest in it and you.
I see you have been together for a yr and a half, if you had just got together because of the baby i could see why this might not work, but you both have been with each other long enough to accept this.
I would discuss this with him in greater depth to get to the real reason why he is being like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): talk to him about it and ask him where he feels his loyalties lie
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