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writes:I just got out of a relationship of several years. Feel like crap. But the last time she broke up with me for 2 months and then came back saying that she was wrong, blah blah blah. This time I think its for real and even if I don't, I would rather not have my heart broken once again. I still have feelings for her, we have been through so much together. But I do understand that people just weren't meant to be no matter how hard you try..........Now the funny stuff happens....About 3 months prior I met a couple(gf and bf) through a mutual interest group. Never really spoke to them much other than the random hello how are you. Never hung out except to attend a weekly meet up. We had all exchanged numbers just to be friendly but never really called each other. This past weekend I received a call, from the girl saying that her bf was trying to contact me about something. I say ok, so I gave him a call. Later that night she calls back randomly asking if asking I had got in contact with the her bf. I guess noticing something in my voice she ask me what was wrong, I reluctantly told her about my situation. She tried to comfort me, saying that it would be ok, its probably nothing etc etc. We ended up talking for an hour. The next night I receive a message from her stating she was upset. I called her the next day to address what had happened. And she reluctantly tells me that her bf had broken up with her. I called her that night and we ended up talking for 4 hours. The conversation was pleasant made me feel better talking to someone that was going through a similar situation. I find out that her bf was a very controlling person and being out of the relationship was probably good for her. We ended the conversation basically saying that we would check up on each other. Mid-day next morning I receive a message from her again saying that she is upset, I again call and seeing that we both probably needed to be out of our houses I said that we should just go for a drive. During our talks there have been so many things that she has told me that have hit so close to home. Talking about how important communication is and she never felt respected(which she wasnt, dont want to disclose TMI) She seems to be very smart, very intelligent, witty etc etc.(yes Im attracted to her) I find it very ironic, weird, downright strange, and find myself thinking is this some sort of sign.....So now what happens
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): yea blah blah blah [ leave her ] dont let her come back and get on with your life theres plenty of fishies out there
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