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writes:hi my boyfriend n I have been together for the pass 4 yrs and we have a 11 month old son together.but recently he started back talking to his ex and i think they started going out wen they were 14 and my boyfriend is 33 so yes they have known each other for a very long time.i recently went thru his fone n seen he is calling her everyday and wen i asked him why is he talking to her now after all these 4 years he said b cuz he asked her why did they break up n she finally gave him a reason.so i was like why do u even care why she broke up with u if u are now here wit me n we hav a family.i asked him if he would stop talking to her he said he would but he lied he is still talking to her n i think he still loves her.his family likes her alot but they dont like me she still come around his family n his brother n his x are really close friends.him n his x i believe they were together on n off for the pass 15 to 16 yrs should i be worried he said he doesnt love her but his actuals show different
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 October 2012):
 You're describing a guy who has no loyalty/fidelity to you... What a great partner!!!!!
Give it a little more time and you'll find that he is having s*x with the ex- and then you will get to feel even worst about things....
WHY put up with such a creep???? Dump him and get a real boyfriend/partner...
Good luck....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 If it was me then honestly yes I would be worried. I know that there is no proof here that he actually loves her, but yes she was a part of his life for a long time and she is still in with his family, I guess it makes it worse for you that his family don't like you. He said to you he would drop contact with her yet he lied to you and continued it knowing how you feel, that suggests to me that he doesn't care how you feel and that he cannot be trusted.
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