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We've been facetiming and he's asked me to come to see him but now I'm getting cold feet

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Question - (2 August 2017) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2017)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I need to make a decision today please can you post so i can get advice. Or advise what i need to change in it to allow it to be posted.

I met a guy online been facetiming for 5 months hes an actor i know who he is etc and we have a great friendship. He has asked me to go visit in America i was all for it but now when it comes to getting the ticket I'm nervous i dont know why. I feel safe with him but i dont do things this extreme?

We are sharing the price if the ticket and hi would be staying at his for 4 days.

My parents say its up to me and my friends are divided.

Am I daft to give up this opportunity because I'm a wimp??

Please help me i dont wanna mess him about but its crunch time and I've lost my bottle

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A male reader, judgedick France +, writes (8 August 2017):

judgedick agony auntI hope you do get to meet him in that way you will not give the rest of your time regretting not going, just what if you hit it off, where do you see this relationship going if there was one

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2017):

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Thanks for your reply. I didn't go. I dont know why. And now I do feel rubbish. There's a huge age difference too I think i was getting excited about the place maybe not the person and i guess that's not me. He's coming here in October hoping to see him then

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A male reader, judgedick France +, writes (2 August 2017):

judgedick agony auntIf you go can you see yourself moving to where he lives if it works out, for your family to say it is up to you they must be happy that he is an ok type guy,

I would what the heck get them tickets booked, the worst can happen is you can't find things to talk about,

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