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We're just friends, so why does it hurt knowing he slept with somebody else?

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Question - (18 May 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

For some really crazy reason i'm really hurt my best male friend, we had a random conversation regarding sex questions, he asked me how many guys have i ever slept with, i answered him and asked him the same question, his answer was 3. I cant understand why i'm so hurt about this. I have been his friend ever since his ex wife left, when this other person ever happened i'm not sure. I asked him who it was and he said that it does not matter, whats important is that everything is over and that the only thing important to him now is me. I really dont understand why i feel so used and so scared that he might end up having sex with someone else when i'm still around, being his friend. Weather he cheated on his wife i also dont know. Its just so strange, the feeling is just wrong.... I know i'm only his friend but it hurts so much....

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