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writes:In Febuary, I met a boy who I fell head over heals for.. Ever since that day my really close friend and I have been through hell and back. We went out for about two weeks and couldn't stand eachother! We both knew we were better friends. But ever since that day we have been really close. I know that I'm in love with him and he's in love with me! Lately I have really wanted him to be my boyfriend, and I know we both hook up with other people, but I know this time it will work out. I think that if we have sex then it will bring us closer, but we both think that it pulls people apart as well as together. I'm kind of scared that he might leave but I believe this is the only way to show him how I really feel. I'm 15 and he's 14, but I know that what we have is real. Should we make that huge step to try to become closer? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): NO. Only have sex when you're ready to have sex. It will make things so much more complicated - you could become sexually dependant on each other, which will be especially bad if you start to hate each other.
I think you should try being in a relationship for some months and see how things go. Only have sex with him when you are already in a stable relationship with him. This is a horrible idea.
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