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writes:Me and my girlfriend were perfect together but now because of things i said over a year ago she says she feels different about me. she said she's sure she still loves me and doesnt want to break up but we dont know what to do. we decided not to talk this week and see if that helps. i'm goin crazy not being able to talk to her and i'm terrified i'm going to lose her. i really do love her more then anything. please help me!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (28 May 2009):
I think she using something from a year ago as an excuse because she is having doubts and is not sure what to tell you. Tell her you need to know how she feels by sitting down and talking. It's the only way you can move on together or apart instead of being in the limbo she's put you in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Not talking won't help. You should have a serious talk with her about what you said; it may be over a year ago but it can take time for things to sink in. If its affecting her feelings towards you, you should really really talk te her about how she feels and how its affecting her, how you feel about it and how you can solve it. Kepp those points in your head and maybe tell her our convo plan so things don't get outta control. Let her know that you don't want to be apart from her.
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