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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so my bf and I met on an online dating site. The thing is we both still have the profiles up! He brought it up a few times and said, "I'm thinking about deleting the profile." But he never did. I know that he's logging on every day. I haven't mentioned this to him but it does bother me a bit. I'm not sure if he's chatting with other girls and just keeping his options open. I spend all day with him on weekends. Then, during the week we talk and text throughout the day. We've been dating for a few weeks now. Should I be worried? He could easily find out if I'm online as well. The thing is he's been acting a little stange lately. I can tell.
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reader, samurai girl +, writes (12 February 2009):
 UGH! Went through this exact same thing. We are all adults. If you are someone's BF/GF that means you don't go on dating sites and you don't have a profile up, logging in to see who's looking at you because you shouldn't care.I told my BF if he wanted to keep his profile up, fine. That meant mine would stay up and I was going out with other people. He got the message and admitted that he was afraid to be the partner he wanted - one he could trust. Bottom line - if they both don't come down, then you either have an open relationship or none at all. Would you go out to singles events and chat up other men? It's the same thing!
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