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writes:OK. I've liked this guy I work with for a a while now and have been too shy to tell him. Recently, he confessed to my friend that he likes me too and is too shy to tell me. Obviously, my friend told me all about this, but he still doesn't know that I know he likes me. It's rather confusing. We've been hanging out as friends, both of us knowing the other likes us but neither of us wanting to take the next step incase it ruins the friendship we've formed. I really want it to become official. What should I do?
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reader, baby duck  +, writes (14 December 2007):
 When I was in the military, my room mate had the hots for the guy next door. I knew he felt the same way for her. I played cupid and told each that the other had the hots for them, even though neither one TOLD ME! (It wasn't too hard to figure out, lemme tell ya!)
So ... I was in their wedding party and this past September, they just celebrated their 22nd anniversary!
Ask your friend to play cupid ...
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2007): I used to be a shy person, and therefore this has happened to me a lot.
if he's already said he likes you, you have nothing to lose!
If you need some confidence before you ask him out, why don't you do a group activity, or go for a drink. therefore if for some slim chance it messes up, you can easily escape.
if he says he likes you, you have nothing to worry about though.
GO FOR IT!
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