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writes:A year ago I met my boyfriend through my friend who lives in Texas. I have only met him once. Every time we talk he says he loves me and misses me and he can't wait till he gets to see me again but every time I bring up him visiting me up here or me going down there he gets mad and yells at me telling me he is trying and to get off his back. I went down to visit my friend and he wasn't there all week. Now he wants to join the millitary and I'm not sure if I should stay or move on. I love him but I don't know if he even wants me anymore. Should I keep fighting or just move on?
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reader, finalmailings +, writes (6 May 2013):
 I am going to have to say that I agree with the posting above. Sounds like you are in a fantasy. You may want to look at the underlying issue here.
Move on, because he's done, and you deserve better.
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (5 May 2013):
 Let me get this straight - you have been together for one year and you've only met once. I'm sorry but that isn't a relationship, it's a fantasy. How can you know someone if you never see them? He's stringing you along and you should ditch him asap.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (5 May 2013):
You only met him once and he became your bf right away?
This sounds very rushed and unhealthy to me.
Looks like he isn't taking it very seriously too.
I would move on.
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