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30-35,
*k.khaos
writes:i miss my ex.i see him everyday,everytime i see i burn inside.we'd never work out,i know i cant and i shouldnt go back to him,but im afraid ,everytime he decides he wants me back i always run back to him,always.if he were to come to me ,im afraid that i cant say no to him,hes the only one who makes me weak.the funny thing is im also afraid that he wont ever come back to me.isnt that funny?im just so twisted here.help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): Hmmm, I agree with Laura... also with amber, don't let anyone define who you are.
But are these issues really un-workable? If they are, then really, hard as it may, be prepared for when he comes back and say no. You're young, and there are other boys, so you'll get over it although it'll be painful at the beginning.
However, if they can be solved, even if it's hard why not give it a try? You don't have to agree on everything, but you can reach common grounds. Trust me, I've broken up with my boyfriend over silly things only to get back together... we've realized breaking up is not a solution when problems CAN be solved. Only break up if you're truly sure there's no way to fix it. But if you can communicate and reach a common ground, then by all means stay together and put some effort on the relationship, love's never been an easy ride.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 Why can't you work out? What is your problem ? You need to tackle one problem at a time.Don't have to break up because you don't see eye to eye on some issues.
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reader, amber2328 +, writes (12 February 2008):
 You are a perfectly normal teenager going thru a breakup and you are learning as you go. There isnt much advice that I can give you other than with time these feelings will fade and remember you were okay before him and you will find new love! That's what's so great about love is that you can never run out of it! Boys can have a way of making girls feel crazy but dont let them fool you boys think the same they'll just never admit to it! Be strong and never let another person define who you are....
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