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writes: Me and my boyfriend started having sex a few months ago. At the start it was uncomfortable but we decided to use some lubrication. Now however after sex finally getting good and enjoyable, it's starting to get sore when ever we do it (with the lube). I'm not sure what it is or what to do so any advice would be helpful. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 July 2005):
 Make sure that the lube you are using is not causing an irritation first of all... as that could make you a little sore... perhaps you are using condoms and maybe you are allergic something like that.... it may just be certain times of the month... take it easy and make love slowly for a while change lubrication and see if that helps.. leave it a little longer in between having sex and hopefully you will soon be relaxed and any problems will ease.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2005): I'm not sure what your usual routine is, but perhaps you don't start with sufficient foreplay. If you can postpone intercourse until you're already fairly turned on, then you'll find that you'll be much less sensitive to pain, and you'll enjoy it much more. Also, you might want to take a few days off just to rest up a bit. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2005): I have found myself in the same situation, on the other side of it, that is, the only way i can help it is too make sure that it is really romantic and special, sometimes if i go down on her in the middle, the natural lube kicks in and she wont be as sore, but some days it still just doesnat work.
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