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writes:Hi,Okay, so me and a friend have known eachother all our lives and when we were young kids we'd "play doctor". We're both guys 19 years old now. Often he proposes doing it again, because it was a lot of fun, it wasn't anything serious just oral and handjobs.We both like girls, neither of us are attracted to each other, but we like having fun if that makes sense? I admit it is a lot of fun but sometimes I go off the idea because I feel weird about it....but I like it at the same time.Should I just go for it?
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reader, Angel S +, writes (18 July 2012):
 Each to their own I guess.
No it doens't neccessarily make you weird, but the fact that you feel weird about it may cause for some regret after the event. If you feel like doing it and its just fun then why not.
Although you might be in for some difficult questions if a future partner asks about your sexual history.
The decision is yours.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (17 July 2012):
It depends if it’s something you think that you’re going to regret afterwards. If you feel uneasy about it then perhaps not. Take your time, think it over, and talk it over with your friend. Human sexuality is complicated, you can like girls and still have sexual feelings for some men, or just the one man. IT doesn’t make you weird. What’s more important is getting a clear idea in your head of where you’d like the boundaries to be with this friend.
I wish you all the very best.
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