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We just started having sex, but he cums to quick!, what can we do?

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Question - (19 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it normal for guy to cum in like the first few minuets of sex? M boyfreind was a virgin and now we do it all the time but he seems to not take long to cum, what do i do to help this situation?

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A male reader, awarapanbanjarapan India +, writes (6 July 2009):

its normal in boyz so u need u give him attention when he put his penis in ur hole u should start talking about anything else away from sex, like about his job , studies his family or his freinds

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008):

get a new man or buy tablets to last longer

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

I think it might in a way, q1605.

Premature ejaculation is very common in young adolescent males. Usually caused by preformance anxiety, ignorance about sex, lack of experience and haste. The more experience he has with sex, the more he will learn to remedy these problems and learn to control himself and give pleasure to his partner.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

that dosent answer my question q1065

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (19 May 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

it's quite normal for a guy to cum a bit quickly when you first start having sex.

There are a few ways to get round this.

One, get him to use extra thick condoms and use a lot of lube. The condoms will decrease the sensitivity and the lube will help to loosen you up . The friction is generally the key for young guys, if you can take that away he should be able to last longer.

Alternatively as part of your foreplay you can bring him to orgasm early so when you are ready he should be able to get it back up and last longer.

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