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writes:I broke up with my b/f of over a year. Come to find out that a guy that Ive know for almost 2 years was about to ask me out before I started dating the ex.He has said he is attracted to me and wants to take things slow.. Im all for it but afraid if I take it to slow he will think Im not intrested... and ideas or suggestions????
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): I think when he says he wants to take it slow he means he would like to be friends first and get to know you better and see what your goals are for your future and see if the two of you are a good fit.
There is no reason to be concerned that he won't know that you are interested, all you have to do is to remind him what a great guy he is, thank him for doing things for you, even if it is paying for a date....the one word that means the most to a guy is appreciation, he does not have to do anything for you, so when he does something nice, let him know how you appreciate him for doing that thing...
Just build on trust and respect, and go from there, things will take care of themselves as your relationship deepens.
Sounds like a good guy, good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): He's said that he'll take things slow. And if he doesn't stick by his word and wants to move things at a too quicker pace for you remember don't be forced into anything if you don't feel ready for it. He'll be slow and take things at your pace if he's worth having a relationship with.
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