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We get on great most of the time but I can't take the verbal abuse from him much longer.

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Question - (21 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 36-40, *ngiez writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 5 months now, I'm 24 and he's 21. Lately we have been arguing about everything, he gets mad if I don't call him when I leave or get somewhere but then he does the same thing sometimes and I don't get angry, he would say something hurtful and then say he's just playing, he talks to me like what he says goes and that's final, he also doesn't want me hanging with my friends guys or girls. He does things to me like if someone gets him upset he'll take it out on me and when I confront him about it he says "oh I'm sorry it won't happen again" and then he does it again.

I tried to take a break but he doesn't want to and I don't want to hurt him because I really do love him, he has been there for me no matter what and I have been there for him through thick and thin, we have so much chemistry and we are great together, "I'm a movement by myself but I'm a force when we're together".

He used to respect me and treat me equally but now it's a 75-25. I don't want to leave him but I can't take the verbal abuse and now when he calls me I automatically get upset about every little thing and it seems like I'm always being a b**** to him, He treats me good and he takes good care of me, he just talks to me as if I'm stupid and it's embarrassing and he does things that he doesn't like done to him. We did talk seriously and he said he wants to change but I don't know what to do now. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!

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