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I think he just wants me for sex...

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Question - (4 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

basically... i left my ex to go out with this boy from my high school. he kept telling me how much he wanted to be with me and how much he liked me.he had been trying to get with me for months and persuaded me to leave my then boyfriend for him. when we got together within the first two weeks he was asking for sex. i said no and then he was asking for heads instead. i also said no to this. anyway we had an arguement becoz ppl were gettin involved in our relationship an broke up but then a week before his birthday he said he wanted to get back together. i agreed but then soon after he told me that he thinks we should have sex on his birthday. i said no and then he kept asking me after how long would we have sex. he sed he didnt know if waiting for sex would be a problem but we should see how it goes.he would only ever talk to me online, never face to face or by phone. my friends say hes just shy but i dont know.hes a typical teengae boy whos very horny but i havnt heard from him. is it JUST sex that he wants???? could there be more? did he just want me to have sex on his bday?

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A female reader, babe'z United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2009):

do you like him enough to have sex?

because it's a big thing to have sex wit someone

and maybe talk to him about this and then see how things go xx

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A female reader, little lilly United Kingdom +, writes (4 April 2009):

Unfortunately it sounds like that's the case. You need to brake up with him. You shouldn't be with someone who's pressurising you for sex. You should be with someone who respects you enough to wait till you're ready. If he's not mature enough to speak to you face to face, he certainly isn't mature enough for an adult relationship. End it with him, spend some time by yourself and in future it's best to get to know someone as a friend before you get into a relationship.

Good luck.

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