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30-35,
*olitta_bonitta
writes:i need all the help i can!!my boyfriend and i fight all the time! i mean all the time! but i love him very very very much, and i know he loves me as much as i do, and even more. but we are fighting all the time,and we fight about stupid silly things. he is getting meaner and meaner every fight..after we fight i recover from it fast and i start to sweet talk him so he can recover fast, but that just seems to upset him even more, that i can forget our fight that fast. i forget it fast because it is not worth the fight, we fight about silly things. but things drag other things and we both say mean things to each other..is it wrong that we fight that much? is that a reason to break up... am i wrong that i can forget a fight that easily? i really get upset very fast, should i bite my tongue when i get upset we we don't fight? plzzz help me!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 May 2010):
 Are either one or both of you a drama queen?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (3 May 2010):
 If all you do is fight, look at the reasons and address them in a calm manner.
If you can't have open dialogue, it is not a relationship worth keeping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2010): You're both young and its normal to have tiffs. Its good to let things go after a disagreement. If you hold grudges its never a good thing. Maybe ask yourself why are you fighting over petty things?
Good luck
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